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Is he going to break up with me?!

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There's no relationship is forever, we can't guarantee that a man gonna be with you for a lifetime. Relationships are always in risk to end and before the break up there's always a plenty of warning signs , if you keep ignore the red flags you will end up shocked,  so here are signs he's going to break up, you should be prepared.. 1)- Loss of comm unication : He doesn't talk about anything, he doesn't discuss your problems your projects and everything about your future together.. He doesn't call like before, he's reducing the amount of communication, he's stop texting and in this case you need to understand that his quietly trying to leave. 2)- He's trying to avoid you : Some men are cowards , they won't tell it to your face, they won't tell you they want to break up, they know it's quite hard , do instead of talking honestly about it they will choose the path of avoidance rather than being direct. If your partner is suddenly can

How to Get over being cheated On ?

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Being cheated on is the most painful experience a person can ever had ... But if your partner is asking forgiveness and he's sorry for his act of infidelity and you still love him enough to forgive him but also still hard for you to get over the deep hurt he caused , because you may be given him a second chance, but you still have that feelings of anger and as long as he's there you will remind what he did over and over again here's tips to survive the relationship :  1* Calm down and don't rush: So you just found out you were cheated on by the person you spend years or months with, first thing you need to do  Is Accept what happened, embrace the pain , and acknowledge it , think of the future. Take some time out for yourself, don't rush and don't do any stupid decision, it has happened, accept it and don't do anything about it to reverse the event, you may feel like your life is stopped and you're paused in the questions of how or why this happened, do

What should i do in an abuse relationship ??

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Being in a verbal, phys ical, or emot ional abuse rel ationship is hard... Some wom en stay til the pain gets worse and worse .. They ju st do n't know what to do or where to go ! Stay ing safe in this si tuation is hard . But if yo u're in danger , don' t minimi ze the abuse..I mean you do n't have to wa it for bro ken bones to admit it' s an abuse! Yelli ng, cussed out, intimidatio n and threats are all for ms of abuse. Many wom en stay trapp ed in this cy cle hoping the abuse will stop but if you keep qui et the abuser will hurt you more!! If you are in danger of bei ng hurt , here' s what you shou ld do to break away and stop the cycle of violence: 1-Acknowledge the existence of abuse and Recognize it : Don't minimize the abuse , this is harder than it sounds, because some woman think minimize the act will make seems like a simple act from the person they love and visions can blur when the problem is close, sometimes,it takes a deep look to un

Reasons why men run away after having Sex

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The sto ry repeat itse lf, y ou found yourse lf wait ing for a pho ne call fr om the guy you just fuc ked last night.. you thought having sex with him will bound you toget her, but he has done his thing and he splits bef ore sunrise. It' s an ordi nary story, most men loose a ttentions to whom th ey sl eep wi th. It' s a guy's poi nt of view...You w ill never under stand and we cant fault them for acting that way ,but some men just cant stay.. Here are prohibition why men leaving after sleeping with you : 1- He won't stay just because he slept with you : Let's be clear, most women think having sex will make the relationship stronger,but for men sex sometimes is priority, they losing touch after intimacy and nothing will stop them from leaving. 2- wo rk : * M aybe he's a workaholic, his busy schedule prevents him to be in a relationship.. he has no time because of his never ending work .. so he must run away early in the morning. 3- He was just hor

Be careful he's a fuck boy!!!

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You will never recognize a fuck boy from the First sight not even the first date they strike as proper gents.. usually fuck boys hide behind a mask ,you will never know.. they are desperate and hungry for females attention. They will feed you lies and til you believe he's real his game well played. You will never recognize a fuck boy when you meet one so here's signs to help you to wake up before it's too late... 1- social media: He's every where ... Dating websites and others begging for nudes or maybe a date. He will hide his phone away every time s he gets an email or Snapchat! You're not his only ...There are hundreds females online and there are dozens of nudes on his phone. You will know it...If he's desperate for your nudes and he doesn't care if you send it or not because he can get it from any one else then start wondering. 2. He's so in lo ve with you but too ear ly to be in lo ve!! : He just met you but he's saying he's so i

What to do to heal a broken heart ?

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Pain of breaking up or the pain of being in one sided love relationship is suffering ,it's an emotional pain prevents you to enjoy life the same way again. You can't handle the end of your relationship or the hurt of being cheated on ... so here's 10 method to mend a broken heart: 1- Acceptance: accept the truth of being separated. Leave the relation behind! Stop thinking how they are doing without you!!! Or questioning about the other person they are date now!! This will cause more pain. Accept the truth of not being together any more and move on. Don't beg for a second chance you just has done enough for him and he will recognize this later. Trust this. 2- talk about it:  don't hold down the pain ,it will only Hurt you more.. Talk about it, tell a friend,go to an expert. Share your experience and don't be ashamed to show your pain .. cry and express your anger , don't hold down the pain it's unhealthy... 3- Don't hold back to the memories: l

How to realize your relationship approch

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The sad truth about relationships that many of them has passed their expiration date, it's always difficult to know when a relationship is over, but some couples still hang together because they jwant to see it end, but if you are trying to save this you will end up recognizing that this pointless and going in vain.  So here are some signs to let you know that your relationship is at the finish line : 1# failure of communication : If you no longer talking about issues or communicating about certain things that bother you in the relationship, that's a huge sign that one of you has end it up but waiting for the right time to go, failing to communicate to each other will leave a huge void and alot of misunderstanding between you and cause minor problems to become big issues you can't solve later . If it's difficult to talk to each other and discuss your relationship it proves that the end is apparent clearly it just needs you to see. 2# You're afraid of being lonely :

What you do when you spot him cheating ???

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Being cheated on in a love and committed relationship is incredibly horrible, its was a horrible moment when I found out and I know about his infidelity and the horrible moments it fellowed it comes to be one of the most difficult phases in life. I have been dating a man for more than three years.. and he has cheated on me three times, different woman, different situation, and a thousand excuses! It was bad and no word could ease that pain, actually it's sad how many women has been through this! When someone you love and trust could do such thing to you , you end up feeling broken by all means. I was feeling foolish to have trusted him , I was angry and embarrassed, usually,  we end up feeling furious and have alot of hate to our own selves.. I was really broken, and seeing the world from a new perspective: cruel and dark. Once this phase of my life has finally passed , gradually and slowly, and he become a distant memory, I realized the mistakes I have done through the cheating p

How to know if your man is cheating on you?

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Women who experienced being cheated on and lied to know this could be the worst nightmare. But for men it's easy to hide and til the woman found out the damage becoming deeper. If you think your guy is pulling some shady shit , chances are your gut is right, truth is if you have this vibe that something just off here's 10 signs to know he's cheating : 1. You haven't met any of his friends yet or any member of his family : .You haven't met any of his friends yet. He goes out more with them without you and everytime you call he answered with "hey" instead of calling you " baby" like he used to do. Besides, he hang alot with them outside.. Also, how many times he said he told his mother about you and the family can't wait to see you, but never invite you to meet them!!! It's a warning sign , you're not this man's only , he's probably cheating ... 2. His phone is off  sight  he's around you or just hidden away your sight :

How to get over an EX?

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Every end of a relationship is painful and frustrated... Even if the break up was expected this may still hard for you to move on sometimes it takes awhile and sometimes it takes forever to heal and get over him..  If  you just can't take the idea Of him being with someone else , you're still hearing the same songs , going to the same places, still can't forget him ...  Here's  10  ways to get over your Ex :  1.Cut off all contacts And don't stalk him on social media: Avoid any contact after the break up , even if you and your Ex decided to be friends, cut off all contacts.. make sure no love left in your heart...If he still go back to you , calling you when he's lonely , drunk or needy just shut him down .. contact with your ex will make it harder for you to forget , block his number or change yours , keep yourself busy so you won't even have time , unfellow or block him in all social media and all the accounts, relate his emails

How to know you're dating​ a Gold digger!?

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Usually in a relationship filled with hot passion and very intimate feelings , it's hard to recognize if the man you are with trying to use you or they truly into you.. it's a very complex matter, when in love everything seems glow and beautiful, and even there are those red flags that keeps rising up , you still don't wanna believe! There are some lucky woman who get the true love , and there are those women who get used and betrayed before they find the right person to be with... In life's path , you will meet plenty of men , the gentleman and the G ! The good guy and the bad one , you just don't need to date all of them to separate the difference! There are always warning signs and no matter how perfect your player is , some day he gonna mistake his role and you gotta know who he is at the end. Due to hard life situations and due to a wrong family rising , some men are a perfect gold diggers! A very good manipulative, and liars ... They know they can use