How to realize your relationship approch

The sad truth about relationships that many of them has passed their expiration date, it's always difficult to know when a relationship is over, but some couples still hang together because they jwant to see it end, but if you are trying to save this you will end up recognizing that this pointless and going in vain.  So here are some signs to let you know that your relationship is at the finish line :

1# failure of communication :

If you no longer talking about issues or communicating about certain things that bother you in the relationship, that's a huge sign that one of you has end it up but waiting for the right time to go, failing to communicate to each other will leave a huge void and alot of misunderstanding between you and cause minor problems to become big issues you can't solve later . If it's difficult to talk to each other and discuss your relationship it proves that the end is apparent clearly it just needs you to see.

2# You're afraid of being lonely :

If you feel like you are in this relationship just because you're afraid of being lonely. You hate the idea of being with someone else ,or you just afraid of loliness , you're with him but has no strong feeling like love or care but you wanna be with him because the thought of being alone just freak you out. This feeling is anxiety it's not love. 

3# You're fantasizing about other people :

In fact,  if you start liking other people  . Fantasize about dating other guys..Then you must understand that you lost in the interest for your partner . You're start daydreaming about other men and imagining your life with someone else then your relationship is basically over, because now that you fall out of love.

4# You're off sex :

If you feel like your sex life become repetitive and bored it's time to decide whether to continue and make it work or let go. Because when you lost the desire completely and you don't feel any attraction to your partner it's time to end it!! When you don't feel sexy and you avoid sex or try to avoid position your partner ask for then your relationship is suited more in being friendship. At the end of the day sex is one of the most important parts of any relationship and if it become worse with time it's an obvious sign your relationship is over,if you no longer initiate intimacy or vice versa ! Or you always make the first move because he's not interested or he's feeling cold there's something wrong. And if things didn't get straight then just break it off.

5# You're just bored :

If you ou don't feel like you like  his romantic gestures any more and it feels boring and dull now after all this time ,and every little thing hes doing now doesn't ignite the flame of excitement in you, now nothing of what he says or do seems excited or lovely, and he fails all the time to bring back a good feeling, then it's time to question how much in this relationship you will carry on !?!?

6# No trust :

if you feel like there's a mutual untrust..You start questioning your partner reasons .And being with him just make you feel certain negative feelings like anger, jealousy, possessiveness then it's the end coming. Because,if the mistrust has crept into your relationship you obviously have issues to deal with.

7# You avoid every future plan for both of you together :

You're full with anxiety every time the thought of spending time with your partner come up then it's time to admit the fact that your relationship is at the dead line because being in love never be a chore or require too much effort , but when you find yourself trying to avoid your partner afterwards then it's time to avoid it all altogether.

8#There's lack of security and freedom in your relationship :

you start Being uncomfortable talking to each other ,you start hide stuff ...This might be a warning sign all is not right.

 

9# You pick up meaningless fights :

You feel irritated and bored to the point of picking up fights without a reason, you just wanna get the guyto do the dirty work and end it up because it's already over for you but you just can't announce the news ! Besides, the small things that never used to bother you're now the things that bring up the biggest fights! If you're going through this , then it's time to move on to someone else you won't argue with. It's happened when you can't resolve the issues and just fight over it .

10# You still holding onto the past :

You live with the past , you still remember his past mistakes hung up on then , you still can't focus on the present and you can't plan for the future, it's a warning sign you're over since the day you start being in the past more than bring in the present.

If the relationship worth the effort and the time make a detour and right the wrong and start over again,if you feel like there's no point of that then you should move on, but before you conclude it's the end be sure you've going through at least from one to three of the previous signs.. if you still can't sit and talk , or even find the time to salvage the relationship ship then you're probably wasting your time , if you can't make the effort then it's probably not meant to be. However, whenever you experience any of these break up predictors in your relationship then it's simply the end.