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Is it an Emotionally abusive Relationship ???

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Truth is there are some very abusive people out there who knows how to attract their victims and bring their destructive tendencies along with them into the relationship.
Many women has been victimized by abusive men, it's sad but truth is most of us been through the same experience only because we can't spot the early signs of an abuser. Besides, It’s hard for a lot of women to be able to admit that the relationships that they’re in are emotionally abusive one.
I had the same experience, I was in a relationship where i  has abused verbally​and emotionally​, since the very start of my Relationship that lasted almost 3 years , and it was really hard for me to admit it Or to speak about it.
My abuser threatened to kill me if I ever leave, my fear wasn't only that im going to be killed, but my abuser has described me a world full of abusers just like him, and I imagined a hell out there , so i stayed!
I stayed with whom i thought is another copy of every one, actually that …

Why it takes so long to recover after being in a relationship with a psychopath ??

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Nothing worse than dating a psychopath, nothing will damage you mentally and emotionally than being in love with this type of guys, that's why when it comes to psychopath encounter your Relationship usually take an unusually long time to recover from. It's tough days , i certainly know. It's like you're damaged, and no way to get yourself back together again.
Survivors often find themselves frustrated because they haven't healed as fast as they'd like. They also end up feeling traumatized and broken by it's meaning. There's no specific time to move on, it needs always your strength to get over it , heal and get your heart back in a good place​.
But usually, survivors live days and nights blaming themselves, you feel like it's your fault and you all wrong , that's what the psycho has convinced you with, making you feel guilty for what he has done to you , said it's your fault and if you didn't do them wrong he would never go! He will mov…

Why you should never contact your Ex????

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No one ever goes into a relationship with a future breakup in mind, that’s why when breakups do occur, it can come across as a shocking and traumatizing experience to the people involved especially when they’re inexperienced in the area. Its a messy phase during life, Breakups are really hard and painful, you will end up feeling disappointed, it's like a whole of a world goes down, too many emotions play there , you're​ anxious, sad, blaming yourself, alot of times you're feeling like you are draining forgetting that there's a life beyond the Relationship that you were in and the only thing you can do is to move on.
Truth is, No one ever likes having to deal with fallouts. And it hurts both , men and women... you're gonna cry alot of tears , and you are training​ your mind and your heart to deal with the idea of not having your loved one anymore. Sometimes couples break up over petty arguments and others break up over heavy lingering issues in the relationship.
Tru…

Does he want you back ??????

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Sometimes, break ups can be just as complex as the Relationship ...
Suddenly there's nothing between two who were once in a relationship, and it's like they are stranger and that hurts sometimes...
Break up  can get complicated whenever you can't be friends... For a lot of lucky couples, they have real closure when they break up. They know that their relationship is over for good and they can move on with the rest of their lives, they understand that the romance is over ... But then there are those couples who don’t get closure when they break up. The relationship’s end wasn’t really all that smooth and so there’s a slim chance that the both of you can rekindle that flame. Sometimes,the big love transform to hate and there's no chance to get things back and 3ven no chance to be friends!
But still, you can’t ignore that things ended on a sour note despite the fact that you think you can still try to make things work again.
But when  you want things back but you have n…

Is He a player ?????

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A player is someone who doesn't care how you feel, or who you are ! As long as you are going ​to be the next tool he gotta use !!! Nothing else matters.
He will get in a relationship with you so quick so you won't discover what he is hiding, he will show love and so much emotions , and then he will leave you wondering, couldn't believe it is him who did all the damage to you...
A player is an emotional manipulative...
A gold digger , A liar , an abuser or
A fuck boy , He could be all this , he knows how to play the role better than any one else before, and he knows better how to hide his many faces til it's end , and when everything is over , he will never admit his mistakes, he will Blame life , and the dirty ways of destiny and even you , he will Blame you for messed up !!! While it's all his fault...
There are plenty of players around us , the nice neighborhood and the handsome college at work ! You will never know before you try ... But to avoid being used and …

Hello Sagittarius​! It's your season ...

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Sagittarius This sign is ruled by the Centaur, a half-human, half-horse mythical creature. 
He is the notorious among astrology for being the most attractive personality, it's the fire sign ruled by Jupiter.
Sagittarius is the ninth of the 12 signs of the zodiac, which begins its cycle late fall every year during Sagittarius season.. Whether or not you have Sagittarius planetary placements in your chart , it’s important to understand the energy of this sign, as various planets travel through Sagittarius all year long, activating this sign’s fiery energy for everyone, regardless of your Sun sign.
If you've been lucky enough to meet One I assure you, that  loving a Sagittarius is intoxicating enough on its own.
Those who are sagitturis want to help and get straight to the heart of the matter when they see issues arrive. They tend to encourage people to see the best side of things, and are very optimistic.A Sagittarius is revered in the Zodiac for moving around so much. They cann…

Is it Love Or Lust ?????

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Never mistake love with lust it's not the same thing, usually in the beginning of Relationships many people confuse these two , but Usually, that fire they ignite within you til you become breathless can't be always love, the kind of passion that keeps you up at night... the waiting for the next date , and the feelings that keeps burning you up , couldn't​ be always love .
As human beings, we get attached to each other pretty easily. We want to feel the hot passion Love. But there’s more  to know about love and lust to separate the two...
There's no big difference between love and lust, emotions is dellusion, and it might decieve you , you will mistaken love for lust and you will end up disappointed.
A relationship based on lust is great if you know what you are getting yourself into and do it with your eyes wide open,
In the opposite if you're expecting so much you will end up disappointed... But what's important is that you don't delude yourself. Here are…

Is he an emotional manipulator ???

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When it comes to love it's really hard to keep it real, for some people it's just a fun game , a way to get what they want or just a play they do  ...
Dishonesty, lies , emotional damage, abuse , cheating ... Some will do it better on the name of love ...
At first , they will come off as very loving, trust-worthy and caring people, they will do the effort it takes to get you into a deep Relationship, they will shower you with the kindest gestures , the feelings that every female seeking for , just like an insect into a spider web, but once they have you hooked , then their true self will come out and you will be left questioning how you ever loved them in the first place, and why you ever got into this relationship, and how to get over it and the damage they left ...
Matter of fact , the manipulative person is that one who know exactly what to say and what to do , they will look like a caring person but they don't really care about your feelings, to them you are just a too…

Is he just attached to you physically ???

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You might think your relationship is real only to later discover that your partner was in it for sex and nothing more. Sometimes, the hot passion love you share between you is just a physical attraction... Women usually give their hearts easily falling for the little things men do ...in the opposite, men know exactly what they want in the relationship, they tend to keep their partners hooked up for fun. If you feel like you are being used for sex and there is nothing real in the relationship, look for these 8 signs to prove yourself right :1# Emotional distance :In a physical relationship there's an emotional distance level with your partner can mean a lot of things but, in this context, it can mean that either they have someone else with whom they are emotionally involved or there is no one, not even you, who they think is close enough to share their emotions with... Or they just feel uncomfortable with sharing emotions with you, they are just into the thought of getting your clo…

Are You dating a boy not a man ????

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Well, if you think real men aren’t out there, you’re wrong. But if you feel like you're​ dating the wrong person always it's because You’ve probably just been dating too many boys who aren’t ready to grow up yet... its not about​ age If you think age has everything to do with being a man, you’re wrong about that too ..Age is just a number. It’s a man’s actions that define who he really is and where your relationship is headed. He is the leader to a successful relationship,
A grown man can exhibit the qualities of a boy, and a young man can exhibit the qualities of a man.
It just depends on his actions and where he is in life. Here are 7 signs you’re dating a boy, not a man​.1#You don't know if You’re Actually Dating:A boy will make you play the guessing game ,feeling paranoid , asking yourself do you really dating!, you will feel like in a relationship and sometimes he will make you feel like you're not! It's not about you , sometimes your man isn't ready enoug…

Did you get used in your previous relationship?!??

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It doesn’t even matter if it's ended in an amicable way , doesn't matter if your ex partner was everything you wanted and you didn't deserve them..
No matter what was going through between you two in the relationship that you’re in You are always susceptible to being used by someone if you allow them to just walk all over you. It’s okay to do a few favors for a person a few times, but when it starts becoming a regular thing, then you really have to reconsider the situation that you’re in.
In any healthy relationship, you should always be getting just as much as you’re giving. That’s called balance.
Balance is always essential in maintaining healthy ties with another person... for your romantic partner, they should also be willing to run some errands for you every once in a while. If there are substantial imbalances in these exchanges of service, then you have to consider the possibility that you are just being used. You always have a cause for suspicion if your romantic …

Did you get used in your previous relationship?!??

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It doesn’t even matter if it's ended in an amicable way , doesn't matter if your ex partner was everything you wanted and you didn't deserve them..
No matter what was going through between you two in the relationship that you’re in You are always susceptible to being used by someone if you allow them to just walk all over you. It’s okay to do a few favors for a person a few times, but when it starts becoming a regular thing, then you really have to reconsider the situation that you’re in.
In any healthy relationship, you should always be getting just as much as you’re giving. That’s called balance.
Balance is always essential in maintaining healthy ties with another person... for your romantic partner, they should also be willing to run some errands for you every once in a while. If there are substantial imbalances in these exchanges of service, then you have to consider the possibility that you are just being used. You always have a cause for suspicion if your romantic …