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When you should End up a bad relationship!??

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Sometimes we find ourselves in relationships that make us miserable but we can't let go, I have been inna prison for almost 3 years, I wasn't happy , sex wasn't good, love wasn't good, everything tasted bad and awful , our fights has no meaning, I wasn't bothered at all like when we first dated, jealousy was a play , and I was up every night wondering why I'm laying next to him still ??? Thinking this is not the way I want my life goes !!!!  It was that kind of relationships that I know in my heart it's not right , but it's just take a hold on me ...I was stuck in a dead end relationship that was only drawing me back ...And he was already giving up making efforts to work it out... I wasn't ready to leave yet I was in love with the idea of us together, and I was still loving the first time we met !!  Til everything crashed down when he decided he's outta love been a long time and he needs to move on and I have to go as well ... If you are in a

Are you in the wrong relationship ????

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We all have been dated "the wrong one" at some point of our lives, it's nothing to be ashamed of...He was just someone who isnt right and we all been through this ..But to recognize the wrong guy at the first date or after couple dates and before fallin for him , needs those 5 methods : 1. You just feel he's lying  : Realizing that you're dating the wron g person  can be a confusing romantic because there are nothing obvious , no red flags , no actions show, but something deep down is telling you he's so wrong.... You might be happy and he's proving that things are working... but you feel ain't nothing right, so just fellow your heart. He's probably lying about certain things but he's coming out with unbelievable excuses,he knows how to manipulate you , he knows the right words to say , he's a perfect liar and he knows how to play you . 2. You don't Feel Comfortable : You hate being around him, you don't feel good being with him

Why do men cheat ?

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Truth is no man is loyal, Or it's just so hard for a man to be loyal .Even in a loving and fulfilling relationship shits happen.   However, the sad fact of the matter is that plenty of people will fall victim to being cheated on. And plenty of men are the unfaithful ones.. But to figure out why men do this we need to go inside their minds to figure out why do they cheat at first place.. Sometimes, it's just hard to understand, you thought you gave alot and he won't hurt you but he will , so Here are some basic reasons as to why people cheat on the ones they love. 1. Sometimes it' s you who gave them a reason to cheat : Some times women act insecu re, you make him feel your untrust , you accuse him all the time and you plan the investigator in your relationship... You thought showing him that you 're afra id to lose him and this easy will keep him .. He will cheat just beca use you accuse him... You'r e naggi ng and the idea will blow his mind ! He wil

Is your past relationship still holds you back ?????

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You can't start a new relationship if you still can't overcome your past, if you still holding back there this will ruin your chances of a romantic future life.. If you still obsessed with your Ex boyfriend you need to get rid of all the memories so you can move on .So before getting into a relationship, you need to be sure that you have finally overcome your past. Those a list of warning signs that tell you that  your previous relationship are still holding you back : 1. You still talk about your ex : You talk about him often , about ever ything you both d id together...That means you still on touch with the memories .. this defi nitely mea ns you ain't moved on yet. . E erything still reminds you of him, every place you go , every song you hear..and you still twist the conversations on towards him Talking about an Ex is a way of keeping in touch with the memories. This a sign you haven't really moved on. 2. Online stalk : You still Google him like everyday, stil

How to recover after being on Toxic relationship ??

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Break up is not easy , even the expected ones can cause a deep damage inside of us , break up is bad , but not worse than being inna bad relationship with a toxic person.. You must be hurt , or mad , all this anger that devour your soul and you don't know what to do about it ! All the damage he left and the hate he poured torture you more .. I didn't know what to do after got out  a bad relationship lasted 3 years ...Filled only with pain of being cheated on and alot of wounds that still ain't healed yet ..Bad memories, and i only sit to regret every late night sex and every sacrifice, and all the energy and the time I've wasted for him.. It’s then I realised I wasted the past 3 years on that person and I wasted a year in an on and off relationship, trying to heal and every time he back I Was running back to him , helping him whenever he asked help, then he disappears for weeks and return back like he never did ....and he took advantage of me .. Then it was like a

What type of woman men likes ???

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Women think it's hard for them to understand what men wants and what to do to make them fall in love.. But to know what a type men fall for .. let's get inside a man's mind here's 10 types men would like to settle for : 1. The interesting woman : The mysterious kind , the ones who has so much hiding ..This type what keep men interested, the less  a man knows, the more interesting that person becomes.  It forces men to engage, to inquire, to seek out. 2 . The woman who shows Affection: Everything for men elevates with touch. By nature, they’re drawn to it. They want a woman to reach out and grab their hand; kiss them us randomly; this evokes the feeling of being wanted. 3 . The Confident woman : There's something sexy about confident women, a woman who loves herself enough regardless of her flaws will love her man unconditionally... 4. The ride or die women: This type who stands by her man in every situation he gone through.. Having a strong woman will

Relationships problems and how to solve it ??

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It's rare to find a relationship that doesn't run into a few bumps in the road. Relationships needs work, it's not easy to be committed ,that's why some of them go through problems and to get through it you should recognize ahead of time though what those problems are and how to solve them , it needs two understanding partners who's willing to work it out... Every relationship has its ups and downs, its rare for couples to run into few bumps in the road.. you should recognize your relationship problems to have a much better chance of getting past them. Learn how to manage that and keep your love life going. If your relationship goes ups and downs here's 10 methods to solve it: 1. Your relationship should be a priority : If you want to keep your love life going, make your relationship a priority...Start with doing the  things you used to do when you both start dating like s urprise him... M ake him feel wanted and loved.  Don't forget his birthday or the