Relationships problems and how to solve it ??

It's rare to find a relationship that doesn't run into a few bumps in the road. Relationships needs work, it's not easy to be committed ,that's why some of them go through problems and to get through it you should recognize ahead of time though what those problems are and how to solve them , it needs two understanding partners who's willing to work it out... Every relationship has its ups and downs, its rare for couples to run into few bumps in the road.. you should recognize your relationship problems to have a much better chance of getting past them. Learn how to manage that and keep your love life going.
If your relationship goes ups and downs here's 10 methods to solve it:


1. Your relationship should be a
priority :

If you want to keep your love life going, make your relationship a priority...Start with doing the things you used to do when you both start dating like surprise him... Make him feel wanted and loved. Don't forget his birthday or the day you first met , celebrate your love.Contact him during the day. Besides you should Show interest ..Schedule time together once a week.and make it a priority..

2. Sex problems :

Most of the times, both of you are bound to lose the sexual urges of the first few days of the relationship,You both go cold , and sometimes you just feel like you wanna only satisfy him because you bored of sex routine .. this a very common problem and to solve it you need to look always for new ways to recreate the sexual high of the first days of the relationship, you also need to talk about it , try new sex positions, tell him exactly how you feel and what you need ... If this doesn't work for both of you , you should ask a therapist, it's important to enrich your sex life .. don't let the sexual excitement​and the enthusiasm fade away.

3. Money problems :

Money never been everything when love is there , but sometimes lack of money creates more problems ...
You both should make a financial strategy .. learn how to save a little for the hard times, and you both should share the financial issues.Don't let this problem become the reason of all your conflicts , find a way out... 

4. Communication problems :

All relationship problems stem from poor communication, You can't communicate whole you're watching TV or checking your online  Facebook, or through phone and text messages...
You should : don't assume you know everything about your partner, Find a good and appropriate time to talk, schedule a time for both of you, appoint a date with your partner, like going out for a dinner or having some time alone ..Whatever​ the subject is , share a quiet , understanding conversations, don't rise voices.Set up some rules. Try not to interrupt your partner speaking... When you can't resolve your problems communication is the key , start improving your communication.

5. Figure it out so you can solve it :

You just can't put a band aid on the issues and act like nothing is wrong, you just can't move on if your problems still ain't solved yet, if you are pretending like everything is okay you will end up exact in the same place that you are now . Matter of fact, if you figure out the main roots of the problem, you will absolutely be able to solve it. So you both should be willing to be better and work on it together. 

6. Trust :

Trust is the most important concept in every relationship... its about trusting your partner when he's out with somebody else, trusting his decisions, and trust his opinions, But if he has done things that blew the trust and you still wanna move on you should ask him to,Keep his promises...Don't lie to each other , don't cheat when you're unhappy talk about it , find a way to solve this . Beside this all you should never make him feel untrusted this will damage the relationship more. Do not overreact when things go wrong.Never say hurtful things you cannot take back.Do not dig up old wounds.Do not be jealous.Be a good listener.

7.Never play the blame game :

When it comes to relationships problems don't blame the other person it will piss them off and hurt them even more than they already are. Actually, you should blame yourself too , blame both of you for the situation you're in , being in equal laying field will help you work things out, because at the end if something went wrong you both should be blamed because you both caused it .

8. Insecurity and jealousy :

This kind of couples are only locked in a cycle of jealousy and anger and this won't help the both of you to become better individuals, you need to learn to have faith in each other, Instead of letting negativety build inside the relationship, learn to enjoy and let your partner enjoy their time .


9. Conflicts :

It's normal to have fights from time time, but don't let it be a habit, don't argue over everything and over nothing , try to avoid the conflicts , basically you should sit and talk about it, find a way to solve your problems without raising your voices of screaming.


10. Ask a professional help :

If your relationship on the line ,there would be nothing wrong with asking a therapist some help, try to figure out what went wrong and how to solve the situation you're in now . Actually, you will feel better that you did this. If you think your relationship worth another try don't hesitate, it will totally worth the investment of your money and time.


Every relationship going through some common problems and it's easy to solve them if you really love your partner.

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