Why do men cheat ?

Truth is no man is loyal, Or it's just so hard for a man to be loyal .Even in a loving and fulfilling relationship shits happen. 

 However, the sad fact of the matter is that plenty of people will fall victim to being cheated on. And plenty of men are the unfaithful ones..
But to figure out why men do this we need to go inside their minds to figure out why do they cheat at first place..
Sometimes, it's just hard to understand, you thought you gave alot and he won't hurt you but he will , so Here are some basic reasons as to why people cheat on the ones they love.

1. Sometimes it's you who gave them a reason to cheat :

Sometimes women act insecure, you make him feel your untrust , you accuse him all the time and you plan the investigator in your relationship...
You thought showing him that you're afraid to lose him and this easy will keep him ..
He will cheat just because you accuse him... You're nagging and the idea will blow his mind ! He will think you can't trust him while he's faithfull, so no harm to make it happen...

2. They aren’t looking to settle down yet:

A lot of times, women look for settlement as soon as she feels insecure and in love with her man ..
But , in fact some men are just afraid of commitment... no matter how much he loves you if he still ain't ready to commit don't press him to do because cheating can be a great escape for him..when some men see that their relationships are getting way too serious for their taste, they will engage in acts of infidelity to defuse the situation.

3. He doesn't see a future with you :

Simple as that ! You can be a good girlfriend but not a wife , it's his point of view, a man will point what he wants from you from the start , don't bother change that !!!
But if you ever met a man who doesn't plan for a future with you don't expect him to change , he will always cheat ...

4. He feels insecure about who he is:

He's using a sextracurricular interest and activity as a way to feel wanted, desired,

He will always run to the ones who shows interests in him , because he seek it out by all means, he will cheat when he start feeling insecure with you , and he will cheat on the next one too whenever someone expresses a semblance of interest in them.

5. They are unhappy with their life and relationship.

Some people will treat their disloyalty as a means to escape from their unhappy life..
You are doing every thing possible but he still unhappy and unsatisfied... and this sadness could lead to them making very bad decisions... He will hurt you and hurt the person he cheated on with.. is not about you , it's something you have no control over.
Sometimes they want to break things off, but instead of just speaking up, they cheat and force their significant other to split up.

6. He has been out of love with you.

It’s as simple as that... but he can't admit it sometimes, when love is gone men can inflict a huge amount of pain
Love isn’t always a sure thing, and just because someone loves you today doesn’t mean that you’re still going to be loved tomorrow...

7.  They think they got power when they cheat :

Some men cheat because they want to control, they seek for power and cheating satisfy their sick needs.. they feel powerful to control other woman in bed .. or they feel powerful over you because at the end they just did what they wanted ..

8. They look for something new :

They cheat because they want something new, some men hate routine in the relationship and instead of asking for a change you both can do ,they will cheat.. sometimes the man who cheat is a man who loved Change and go for it , sometimes the woman they are with is a bored type and they just sick of it...

9.  An unresolved childhood trauma:

Men cheat because sometimes because their childhood was dysfunctional , they lived an emotional abuse, physical abuse, neglecting,or sexual abuse ..
Men who cheat has a trust issues they just feel wrong to trust and be faithful to someone..
They might also be using the rush of cheating as a distraction from the pain of these unhealed emotional wounds.

10. They’re addicted:

Sometimes they have an issue with alcohol or drugs, and these substances affect their decision making, leading to impulsive sexual decisions.
Other times they are sexually addicted, using sex compulsively as a way to “numb out” and not feel. 

Men cheat for certain reasons , you will never figure it out ... Sometimes it's just a man's need or their instinct, sometimes men cheat outta routine, and other times it's the previous reasons we just mentioned , so you will never know , but personally i advice woman who experienced being cheated on once to leave , because he will do it again .... Trust me !