When you should End up a bad relationship!??

Sometimes we find ourselves in relationships that make us miserable but we can't let go,
I have been inna prison for almost 3 years, I wasn't happy , sex wasn't good, love wasn't good, everything tasted bad and awful , our fights has no meaning, I wasn't bothered at all like when we first dated, jealousy was a play , and I was up every night wondering why I'm laying next to him still ??? Thinking this is not the way I want my life goes !!!!

 It was that kind of relationships that I know in my heart it's not right , but it's just take a hold on me ...I was stuck in a dead end relationship that was only drawing me back ...And he was already giving up making efforts to work it out... I wasn't ready to leave yet I was in love with the idea of us together, and I was still loving the first time we met !! 

Til everything crashed down when he decided he's outta love been a long time and he needs to move on and I have to go as well ...

If you are in a bad relationship here are some strategies to know when you should end it up before you damage  yourself more and before he left and damage you with truth because when men stop loving that's when they cause you lotta pain ..

So here's when you have  to get on with your life:

1. When you feel in love with the memories more than the person:

You feel like you are not into your partner any more, there's no interest, and you think about leaving him more than staying, but what holds you back is always the first period of the beginning of your date....

You just love the memories , and you can't abondon this ..This a sign of dead end love , so move on before you damage yourself trying to survive it ... It won't work!

2. When you feel alone in the relationship.

He's there and not there , he seems indifferent and careless ..  he just used the routine and he won't notice if you're feeling lonely or not , you're feeling alone and hopeless , you want talk to somebody and hes not the one who understands!

Usually  men in long-term relationship stop showing efforts, he knows you are there and you wouldn't leave .. you are lonely but he can't do anything !

He's going out all day , he meets people, and he thought home is the lace where he must feel quite and find the calm! 

If you feel so lonely in a position this grab a hold on your chest ! Just leave ...You will be suffocated every day and night with things you want say and you will be seek a person who can hear and understand, you don't deserve to be in this situation because you think you love your partner!

In my previous relationship, I was living with my man , and all he make me feel was loliness , i was at point I couldn't take any more, but Everytime he showed a lil caring I was staying, thought it was enough... But this not supposed to be a relationship !!!

3. When nothing makes you happy any more .

Watching movies together, have some time alone, going outside... New gifts , clothes , kisses, hugs , i love you texts , nothing has the old taste , nothing seems to excite you any more...

You're not feeling same about this , theres no spark between you any more.. kisses and hugs are no longer warm like the pretty old days  ...

He's here or not ,he's loving you or he's done, you just lose the interest of everything belongs to him.

Just don't ignore the signs , staying inna bad relationship with all the wrong signs , for specific reasons won't help at all!!

4. Sex become shitty :

You are trying to find all the possible reasons to not have sex ! You're avoiding sex and if you did you don't feel a thing , sometimes he's fucking you just because he's horny , and vice versa for you too!!

Sex suppose to be prove of love not just an envy ,you are not supposed to feel like a hoe when you're down him !

5. You don't care about him ..

You don't bother what he's doing, where he go or with whom he's talking, you're not caring if he's going or staying.. all same ! He's out with girls but you don't feel jealous. Even if you have to ,and now You don't call every day to ask how's he ? Or what he's doing?

He's threatening you to leave but you don't seem to care to stop him .

6. Conversations become boring:

You hate long conversation now .. you barely handle him talking. You're tired of arguing and you just wanna avoid it, you feel like you can't share an honest conversation with him ..You stop sending him text messages to remind him that you love him or miss him ..And now you start like other males..Or having interest on other people.

7. Nothing is same :

You wanna leave like every day .. the idea of leaving him keeping pumping inside your mind... He's not important any more , you don't care if he's sad or angry ! You just don't givva fuck !!

You don't feel comfortable with him . You want a space but all what you both had together is what holds you back.

8. Now you just hate all his habits:

His habits are annoying you and you don't like what he says or what he does!Everything about him just seem suck and irritated!!!

 Don't ignore the signs , when love is gone , don't try to bring it back , nothing will work if you the only one who's trying ..Men in long term relationship think that they got you and you won't go nowhere, they think you love them enough to just live with all the previous signs but if you're in a bad relationship don't stay ,this will fuck you u mentally ..