Showing posts from December, 2017

Is it an Emotionally abusive Relationship ???

Truth is there are some very abusive people out there who knows how to attract their victims and bring their destructive tendencies along with them into the relationship.
Many women has been victimized by abusive men, it's sad but truth is most of us been through the same experience only because we can't spot the early signs of an abuser. Besides, It’s hard for a lot of women to be able to admit that the relationships that they’re in are emotionally abusive one.
I had the same experience, I was in a relationship where i  has abused verbally​and emotionally​, since the very start of my Relationship that lasted almost 3 years , and it was really hard for me to admit it Or to speak about it.
My abuser threatened to kill me if I ever leave, my fear wasn't only that im going to be killed, but my abuser has described me a world full of abusers just like him, and I imagined a hell out there , so i stayed!
I stayed with whom i thought is another copy of every one, actually that …

Why it takes so long to recover after being in a relationship with a psychopath ??

Nothing worse than dating a psychopath, nothing will damage you mentally and emotionally than being in love with this type of guys, that's why when it comes to psychopath encounter your Relationship usually take an unusually long time to recover from. It's tough days , i certainly know. It's like you're damaged, and no way to get yourself back together again.
Survivors often find themselves frustrated because they haven't healed as fast as they'd like. They also end up feeling traumatized and broken by it's meaning. There's no specific time to move on, it needs always your strength to get over it , heal and get your heart back in a good place​.
But usually, survivors live days and nights blaming themselves, you feel like it's your fault and you all wrong , that's what the psycho has convinced you with, making you feel guilty for what he has done to you , said it's your fault and if you didn't do them wrong he would never go! He will mov…

Why you should never contact your Ex????

No one ever goes into a relationship with a future breakup in mind, that’s why when breakups do occur, it can come across as a shocking and traumatizing experience to the people involved especially when they’re inexperienced in the area. Its a messy phase during life, Breakups are really hard and painful, you will end up feeling disappointed, it's like a whole of a world goes down, too many emotions play there , you're​ anxious, sad, blaming yourself, alot of times you're feeling like you are draining forgetting that there's a life beyond the Relationship that you were in and the only thing you can do is to move on.
Truth is, No one ever likes having to deal with fallouts. And it hurts both , men and women... you're gonna cry alot of tears , and you are training​ your mind and your heart to deal with the idea of not having your loved one anymore. Sometimes couples break up over petty arguments and others break up over heavy lingering issues in the relationship.

Does he want you back ??????

Sometimes, break ups can be just as complex as the Relationship ...
Suddenly there's nothing between two who were once in a relationship, and it's like they are stranger and that hurts sometimes...
Break up  can get complicated whenever you can't be friends... For a lot of lucky couples, they have real closure when they break up. They know that their relationship is over for good and they can move on with the rest of their lives, they understand that the romance is over ... But then there are those couples who don’t get closure when they break up. The relationship’s end wasn’t really all that smooth and so there’s a slim chance that the both of you can rekindle that flame. Sometimes,the big love transform to hate and there's no chance to get things back and 3ven no chance to be friends!
But still, you can’t ignore that things ended on a sour note despite the fact that you think you can still try to make things work again.
But when  you want things back but you have n…