Being in Relationship with a guy who looks like he feels same about you and he's all about you is heaven.. But as time goes by, you might figure out you was living a lie and your were stuck in a relationship with a psycho . They might not go as far as trying to kill you, but they would use you for their benifits and destroy you mentally. They will use you and you will never know because you will be busy falling for them.
They are parasites, they will treat you like no other man do, they are amazing to a point you can't believe how good they are, and they will love you like you the only one matters , they will give you the love like you never experienced before and they will feed you lies , feeding off you , your money, your body and everything you can offer, and you won't resist their affectionate ways .
However, this kind of men know exactly how to cover up their true self and show you what they want you to see, and you will never see them for who they are because they will be your everything. Besides , their game won't take any longer because they will achieve whatever they wanted from you and they won't waste time on you.
At the end, You will realise all the love and the promises he gave , all the words he told will vanish faster with him , faster than you could imagine.
But to recognize a psychopath before the damage will be done here's 7 signs read carefully, it's a chance to save yourself from falling prey for them because once you get close to psychopath a nightmare will begin to unfold, this freindly charming guy will transform you into an incompréhensible mess of mind games and choas :
1# He's showering you with attention :
Never a minute without them, never a time alone, never a chance to miss them ! And never a day without them! They will be with you every where you go showering you with Care and attention, love and jealousy, and if they can't be with you they will be on phone the whole time, seems like they can't get enough of you ! It's kinda scary relationship because they are hiding behind so much love, care and attention and you won't doubt them for awhile .
When you're dating this guy , things move extremely fast, he's just perfect in all the ways , he has everything in common with you. He's so perfect to be true, he constantly initiate communication and seem to be fascinated with you in every level , he will shower you with compliments like you never see or hear before!
After showering you with non stop attention and admiration, then they suddenly seem completely bored with you. They will look annoyed that you're interested in continuing the passionate Relationship they created, annoyed that you're caring about them still...
2# He has a split personality :
One minute they loves you, the other they are cold , they are switching from one extreme to another. They look often disinterested, disrespectful and abusive. They will break up with you suddenly and reunite quickly.
When you're involved with a psychopath, the disrespect immediately shifts into abuse and creates a traumatic relationship for their victim. They will left you with depression, anxiety, substance use and you will live all this kind of emotions all at once !
They doesn't care how you feel or what you need although sometimes they look caring , but in fact they are paralysed .
3# He is a "Drama Queen ":
He prey your emotions with pity plays and sympathy stories and you will quickly find a soft spot in your heart for him, he will seem innocent, honest, he has been unlucky with love before you met, or he has been broken from an old love, abusive Ex who still trying to break them down and hurt them, heartless friend, cruel life experience, that made them lost faith in love and life before you met .
They will say , they hate drama and yet soon you will come to notice there's more drama surrounding them than anyone you've ever known.
4# You're not His Only One :
No matter how many times , he said you're the one, and nobody comparing to you, no matter how many promises he gave, you will find yourself later surround with his former lovers , potential mates and anyone else who provided them with added attention. Those people that the psycho once told you they mean nothing to them and he's better off without , this will confused you and creates the perception that the psychopath is in high demand at all times.
5# He Denies His mistakes :
The psycho won't admit his mistakes and will cover his manipulative behaviors, they will ignore evidence when confronted with it .
Sometimes, they will blame you for their faults or accusing you for become sensitive, toxic people condition you to believe that the problem isn't the abuse itself , but instead your reactions to their abuse.
They will call you crazy or needy after intentionally ignoring you for days on end, and they will be accusing you with neglect them or ignoring them, they will use pity to get other targets , trying to convince you that you're the psycho One.
6# He is lying and making excuses :
He has always certain excuses stuffed with lies, always something to say , they make up lies faster than you can question them, they constantly lie about everything, their past relationships and every detail in their lives, every thing they had gone through! Never their fault! Always somebody else to blame! Even when you caught them lying they express no remorse or embarrassement.
7# He's Draining you Down :
A psychopath will try to drain the energy from you and consume your entire life, you will thought you the only one who could make them happy, but now you feel that any one with a beating pulse could fit the role.
However, the truth is no one can fill the void of a psychopath's Soul . He will make you passionate transforms into overwhelming panic and anxiety, you apologize for things you did not do , and you cry more than ever have in your life, he will make you live heartache and pain over and over again! You will sleep feeling anxious and woke up with pain . He will drive you insane , tear your entire life apart , spending your money , ending your friendships and searching for some sort of reason behind it all.
PSYCHOPATHS look like you and me , but there's one big difference, they don't have a conscious. They can harm others with absolutely no sense of remorse or guilt, they spend their lives learning how to mimic normal human emotions , but they don't actually feel any of these feelings like compassion, love , trust , jealousy , all just convenient vulnerabilities to be exploited.
These relationships leave long last damage, although there's always a chance to save yourself from the start if you recognize the psycho from the very start!!
However, Encounters with a psychopath are like drowning in a black hole , so better save yourself and get out this relationship even it's too late, run , know your worth and your self-respect and make healthy boundaries that will serve you for the rest of your life.