Why do psycopaths cheat ???!

Have you ever met a guy who had suffered from cheating and betrayal almost throughout all his past relationships... He was the victim most of the times ..and he's just looking for someone to faithfull to love them right.. Of course you did ! if its not you , you probably heard a similar story.. I was a victim of psychopath abuse , cheating is what my partner has put me through, although he was the victim of his past relationship where he experienced betrayal also! When you first meet the psychopath he will convince you that he is faithful and he will never cheat or betray your trust! Later you start to discover that your partner is a cheater , and he has no remorse of guilt..he feels no shame of what he has done to you. He convince himself that's your fault, and his cheating is a result of your bad behaviors, he's a victim of you! A psychopath will talk about marriage and having kids with you, while sleeping with another person who's telling them same. He doesn't seem to care how you gotta feel if you ever find out! He will give you the silent punishment , punish you for loving him and play the victim because it has been always your fault. He will wave it on your face ,like yes he's cheating on you , and he's not ashamed of himself!! You will find out yourself wondering what did you do wrong ? Or what you should have done  so he replaced you quickly, immediately making all the same promises to another person? You will never believe it never been love any way and all of what he has said and done was nothing! He never been so attached to you , and he was able to move on so easily despite what he has always said that he can't! It's not he is unable to leave from the start ! He could but it was easy to suck your emotions, he was an emotion vampire... And that's how he survived... It could be you or someone else !they are hungry for attention from outside just to prove their own existence... and no one seems to satisfy their needs, they see love as receiving constant attention and adoration. This is what they give to you, and this is what they want to receive in return. I know how much love and care you have gave but the problem is they still don't feel good enough about themselves! You has done alot to save the relationship, but it's him whos looking for a magical touch to fix him! And probably the next partner could do better than you . 

Lot of survivors end up feeling exhausted, lost and confused!! The person who said he loves you the most and he can't live a day without you is telling another person the same thing ! Truth is , he never felt a thing for you or for her! When you start seeing the real him and the real relationship it's when you are punished and replaced. Even though they blame you, I assure it's never your fault, but you're unlucky enough to love a psychopath who his only concern is how to make you feel miserable for loving him! Trust me when I say not only you who gonna be punished, but everyone he meets​ is a victim, a next prey for them.. are you wondering why the psychopath is cheating ??? Here's 4 reasons why , and I hope you Know it's never your fault .

1# Psycopath wants in life are control and sex :

Psycopath are incapable of feeling love, so it means nothing to them. Instead, they derive their satisfaction from sex and control..
Normal people want love in relationships but not Psycopaths, they are different from the rest of us, weird , only concern about getting intimate with the victim without feeling connected.
Psychopaths view other people as objects to be manipulated.

2# Relationships are the means to  end before even starts :

When a psycopath meets you, he try to find anything they want from you, they set their goal and how to get that thing they set their mind to , and they know when it's time to leave. They figure out your vulnerabilities and manipulate it to get what they want from you.
They want only your attention that they seemed ​to never get enough of it... In fact , they look romantic , they give promises like none else ,and they care for you, they act jealous and protected, but you're going to give much of you to keep them satisfied. Alot like money, sex , shelter ,food, clothes, care, attention and much more... you thought he can't leave you, not when you're sacrifice your all, but be sure he is going to leave looking for a new source of supply, someone else who can give what you gave and maybe more , doesn't matter.

3# For Psychopaths relationships are just for entertainment :

You're the target a psycopath set, you have something​ he wants and he will do it all to get it, you're a simply a game he gonna play , and you're an object to entertain him.
Psycopath can't commit and if he say the opposite he's surely lying, he's patient with what he wants and if he's going to wait forever to get it he's going to wait.. Story is they pursue you just to see if they can hook you. When they succeed, game over, and they dump you with no consideration at all for your feelings.

4# Psychopaths get bored easily so they are always on the lookout for a new type of sex :

You're not special and sexy as the psycopath told you, he doesn't care what you look like, you're just a sex tool, they usually have a need for sexual excitement, they get bored easily so they want something different, a new sexual partner where they can enjoy a new experience.
You may feel like a psychopath’s interest in sex has waned. It may not be their interest in sex just sex with you. They’re still looking for someone or something new and exciting.

 I know you're feeling rejection, shame and betrayal, Infidelity causes so much jealousy and humiliation. This can set us on a path of revenge or anger, which is quite normal. but this type of manic anger keeps us from feeling the painful, unbearable emotions that are completely natural when we encounter such a drastic rejection from a trusted loved one. .. analyze the past relationship is not a solution and dating new guy won't help if you still feel the pain, you need to get over the cheating, stop going through his new relationship, I know you hope it fails , you go around analyze things , trying to find out similar details, trying to figure out who's fault was! But you're only hurting yourself! Love yourself again and try to communicate with it , fill the emptiness he left with a new hobby , go out and have fun , please don't stuck like I did in the past relationship trying to get things back when he's done from his new relationship! Face the situation you are going through, it's your wounds. You are the only person who can decide to nurture these wounds and build a loving relationship with your emotions.

* Talk to me :

Have you ever been through being cheated on, betrayed to and lying to ????
I did ? What about you??!
Write down your own story , tell me also why do Psycopaths cheat as you think!


Comments

Partha Bose said…
Beautiful , I like the article.
She said…
Thank you 🙏

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