why you shouldn't go back to the same person who broke you ????

Don’t go back running to the same person who broke you.. don't let it happen in a moment of weakness where you’re feeling lonely and just need someone to be there for you.
This one can't heal your pain especially if he's the reason of it.. you will always be reminded his mistakes and you will never move ahead ...
He can't make you feel love again, you will always feel anger and hate!!! Especially if he cheated on you before.

Don’t go back to them because you’re heartbroken, or sad, or lonely. Because the person who broke you in the first place isn’t the one who’s going to fix all the broken pieces and put your heart back together.

You might think they’re different, you might want to believe them when they say they’ve changed, but in fact they haven’t changed. Maybe in the beginning they can cover up who they are a little bit more. Maybe they can fool you but they didn't really change.

If you're confused to go back or not , here's 10 reasons to explain why you shouldn't go back to the same person who broke you at first place:

1. He won't change:

Going back to the same person who broke you will make him just think that whatever they do you will forgive him for and keep doing it without any concern to how their actions make you feel. 
He will think you're weack enough to forgive him, and he will apologize expecting you to just accept this, deal with it and moving on quickly.
They can apologize all they want for their actions and the way they made you feel, but they don’t actually mean it.. and they will continue to do the same thing over and over..
He might be taking alot about change so don't hear words look for the proof.

2. Going back to an Ex is unhealthy :

Being with someone who drags you down isn’t healthy and they will continue to hurt you, even if they promised they wouldn’t.

You will always be mad over past mistakes , and if he broke your trust once you won't trust him again...

 

3. Round and round you will go :

There’s a good chance that if your ex hasn’t changed, you are going to run into the same problems all over again.

There's a huge chance he won't learn anything from your last relationship together, and if you will notice that he didn't take the time to grow as a person, odds are you are going to have the same relationship problems you faced before.

If your ex hates his actual job or his entourage but he still didn't do anything to change this situation he's in, you are going to encounter the same frustrations.

If your ex hasn’t progressed as an individual, and especially if you have, you are bound to run into similar problems in your relationship if you try again.

4. New annoying habits:

He has disgusting habits in the past , but he came back with new ones now and you just can't take this .

They've been off the hook before but now things become nasty and irritating..

You feel like things getting worse ..

You just didn't notice before but now you just can't live with.

5.You don't feel yourself in this relationship any more :

You Don't feel same, you can't joke around or do funny stuff with him any more ! You feel akward next to him ! 

You feel like you have to pick up your words and your actions...

You're trying to be somebody else and you just tired of pretending..

6. He has new baggage:

He is a new person, someone with alot of new bagage he got it while you were apart. 

He feels loss, desperation , sad...And you can't figure out why ! 

He's facing new issues, new job , new music,new activities!

He's different in bed , he wants new positions, and you feel weird !!

 But how far you can deal with him with this new baggage !! You won't handle!!

7.the sex :

 You just feel the sex is different, he's not same , and you are not satisfied, he's careless or he evaluate sexually and you just don't like it!!!

8.You still not satisfied in this relationship:

If your Ex prevents you to grow and you feel like your life goals and your dreams do not line .. don't go back .. you will only run into problems if you decide to give them another chance. 

9. lack of support:

He doesn't take your side, you support him still but he doesn't make any effort.. he's tired of trying and he has done enough for the relationship before!!!

This Ex is expecting you to work it out yourself, he doesn't even bother to support all he wants is you to give while he's only receiving. 

If your ex isn’t supportive of your life goals, whether they be career, family or personal, you should not give your ex another chance.

10. No trust :

Once trust shattered it won't be fixed! You will always face the same trust issues and you will always face he same problems..

You just can't build a relationship with no trust ! 

Going back to an Ex is like re- reading the same book , you well know what gonna happen at the end ...

There are many reasons why you probably shouldn’t take your ex back. 

An ex won't help you to grow or evaluate.. Remember why you broke up at first it's the same reason you're goin to break up Again.... There's no probability of change because men are hard to change so don't hope !

Just let it go and find who can make you feel love again.

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