How to refresh your relationship ???

Every relationship go through stages, happy or sad .. it's all face ups and downs, and sometimes it become boring and you just sick of routine.
That’s why it is so important to make your relationship a priority in your life and you should make an effort to refresh it because when men get bored they will look for a replacement.. dont  neglect the relationship !!
If you think it has lost some of its sparkle, don’t think that there is nothing you can do, take a look at these ten ways so you can refresh your relationship :

1. Fall in love again :

Take him to old places make him remember why you fell in love at first ..
Get the old pictures, talk about the souvenirs you shared,  remember why you are still together now. .
Returning to these moments and remembering what have had in the past will show exactly why you should be trying to rekindle those feelings today. Go through your old pictures together this going to remind both 9f you of all the great times you both had and how beautiful the things you shared together. Remind yourself of why you fell in love at first and why you are still together now. Returning to these moments and remembering what you have had in the past will show exactly why you should be trying to rekindle those feelings today. Moreover, you need to bring back the love feelings Make your partner feel wanted and loved, just like the first started dating.  make them feel desirable, and special. 

Bring the romance back by doing some simple things to recreate that attentiveness within

 2. Space :

They might be sick of daily routine and they are sick of fighting over everything .. give them the space they needed dont let them force you to leave them alone !! Don't argue , don't pick fights , don't bring up your daily problems to the table in inappropriate time ! Give them  the space they nee so they can refresh how they feel about you.

3. Start a new hobby :

Find something new that you can both be interested in and perhaps take classes some together. Learning something new together will give you something that you can share and that will help to revitalise the connection between the two of you. Basically, starting new hobby will help you to share fun and pleasure and intimacy, share goood meals , share some play time , share jokes and go for watching a comedy movie ..share outdoor activities, memorable and productive, learn about investing in something,paint your room together for example or plant a flower in the garden, just do something that keep you connected to each other.

4. Sex life :

 Every relationship is different, but often the romance dips as your sex life becomes more routine and less exciting. Make the effort to try new things and talk to your partner about your sex life.

Don't be embarrassed, and be honest about your desires as well as paying attention to your partners. 

Keep things relaxed and fun, and don’t turn it into an inquisition.Try to think of your sex life as a crucial part of your relationship, and a way for you to connect and get closer to your partner.

5. Communication :

Every couple should have the ability to communicate without arguing, if you can't take a deep conversation together so there must be a problem .
There must Understanding and you must be on good terms with your mate is vital to a successful relationship. Basically you need to work on communication, you should have time to sit and talk together. You need to find ways to express your concerns to each other, as well as your dreams and inspirations . Be open and honest.

6. Go out on dates :

 go Out together ... Carry on dating, set asode a day of  a the week or a night alone,get dressed up , go somewhere nice and have a good time together. Take a break off work do whatever it is to have some time alone ... you can get away for a weekend and spend some time, it will give a break from all the things that distract you and give you the opportunity​ to really talk. Go out together​ to a romantic dinner .it’s a great way to release some tension outside the household...go out on dates like the old time before..

7. Keep the romance alive :

In long term relationship romance is not something that happens automatically most of the times, everyday pressure and time constraints have a tendency to rob us if spontaneity, romance is important it will keep the relationship fresh and exciting and will keep you both close. Also , you have to Prepare a nice dinner for your partner , make him feel relaxed after a busy day, making your partner’s favorite dish shows that you were thinking of them and that the love still exists . In addition, being affectionate and intimidate will keep you remember why you fell in love , express gratitude for the mature love you've developed and don't take each other for granted, if you find your bonds becoming stake explore new ways of expressing your sensuality and sexuality together.

8. Time alone :

There is nothing better than to take a break from being around your partner sometimes when they stress you out for some unknown reason. Having sometime to think alone is healthy before you speak to your partner.

Finally, you may have committed and you take the relationship responsibilities, and this shouldn't take away your individuality, you still need to engage to your hobbies and do things for yourself that makes you happy, don't depend upon your partner to change your mood. 

9. Accept your flows and support each other :

Your commitments to each other provides the support that sustains both of you. Don't be afraid to ask for what you need. Accept your weakness and support each other, you can make this show more attractive, celebrate the time you have had together, 

As a result, every one  has their good points, but many couples only focus on the negative. Particularly when you’ve been in a relationship for a long time, it’s easy to take your partner’s positive aspects for granted but to notice all of their inadequacies! It may be helpful to take a sheet of paper and draw up a list of ‘positive’ aspects of your partner. This can include practical things like they rustle up a great spaghetti bolognese, to being able to make you laugh. Most people will find that the positives far outweigh the negatives and this will help them to feel more kindly towards their partner.

10.Don't be afraid of going to a relationship expert :

If you want to refresh your romance and are struggling with a way to do so naturally, Fiander suggests seeking professional assistance.

"You probably don't fix your car yourself or perform surgery on yourself -- you get an expert. If your relationship is really struggling, bring in a professional," she says. "That's what they're there for."

When you hit a wall in your relationship or get too comfortable to make an effort, you might not want to seek advice from friends for fear of judgment. However, a relationships​ expert is an unbiased professional who can help you with new ways to improve your relationship.

Every  relationship has its ups and downs but you deserve the most out of it, so realize when things have gone stale and be open to refreshing your relationship. "This relationship is one of the most significant aspects of your life," says Fiander. "So give it the attention it deserves."