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Is he an abuser ??

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Sadly , abusive relationships started perfectly, the abuser person is somebody perfect, amazing and flawless , it takes always time to recognize that you're a victim of an abusive relationship, it takes an average number act of violence  before the woman leave . So why not plan to avoid dating an abuser in the first place, so to detect this too early you need those 10 signs to recognize the abuser before it's too late : 1# jealousy : Every abuser will say that jealou sy is a sign of love, while in fact it' s proof of insecurity lack of trust and possessiveness .. If you're dating a man who' s je alous over everything, possessive , calls constantly, it seems cool at fir st beca use it see ms like he cares, but later yo u will find out this guy you're da ting is a psycho! He's asking who's you're talking to! Whom you have spoken or seen during the day , he will accuse you with flirting or cheating ! The jealousy will progress, he won't let

How to get an Ex back ?

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You broke up, you been hanging around with a new one but things won't gonna get any better, you think you deserve another chanct want him back, In this case , I'm talking about the women who been dumbed by the man but still in love with them. Sometimes, we argue too much , we care too much , we love too much ,til we suffocate him and instead of dealing with our psycho side , they prefer to leave to breath elsewhere without you being nagging over everything, and jealous over everything that moves  !!! Yes sometimes they love you enough to leave, sometimes you just run out of chances and it's better to separate ways ! There are a hundred million ways to break up but If you're dealing with a very painful break up , and you can't take the idea of him being with a new one,You're just obsessed with getting him back it's not too late too rekindle the live with your ex, but don't get rush and make any mediciore moves , here's 10 methods to be his girlfriend

Are you in healthy relationship ???

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In a long term relationship, couples loses interest.. things become boring and the routine kills love. Sometimes, though, people stay in relationships for all the wrong reasons, even when the most important characteristics of a healthy relationship are missing. So here's characteristics of a healthy relationship : 1.Communication : Is the key of a healthy relationship, stay connected to each other .. you both should talk , it's important to talk more . I n a healthy relationship you need to be able to talk to each other and, more importantly, be able to listen. There should be no fear of losing one another, if you raise a thorny subject,you should be able to talk about anything and everything. If you can’t communicate, then problems will be left unresolve d Try to spend a few tim s together, no TV , no phones , discuss deeper and personal subjects , keep concern of problems, try to solve it together.. Disagreement is a part of every relationship but don't let it d

Is he using you for Sex and money ??

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w omen usually get blinded when it comes to love , while men who's using them for sex and money are the best hiding their true colors..You never know they’re using you until you’ve exhausted all you can give. You will never know it from the start because he will show you all the love that could possibly blind you to see the real him.. His probably been using you for sex and money and you know what’s worse than dating a user? Falling love with a user! Dating a user will wreck you , he will take it all from you using all the ways , using all the words, using advantages of your body and your wallet.. If you're in love , dating a guy  and he's suspicious like he's interested in money and sex more than the relationship .. but you can't tell ...Don’t mistake hot passionate sex for hot passionate love. Sometimes, as much as it seems like love is all you can see, it could just be a haze of lust in your lover’s eyes. Men tend to know exactly what they want from the start,

When you should End up a bad relationship!??

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Sometimes we find ourselves in relationships that make us miserable but we can't let go, I have been inna prison for almost 3 years, I wasn't happy , sex wasn't good, love wasn't good, everything tasted bad and awful , our fights has no meaning, I wasn't bothered at all like when we first dated, jealousy was a play , and I was up every night wondering why I'm laying next to him still ??? Thinking this is not the way I want my life goes !!!!  It was that kind of relationships that I know in my heart it's not right , but it's just take a hold on me ...I was stuck in a dead end relationship that was only drawing me back ...And he was already giving up making efforts to work it out... I wasn't ready to leave yet I was in love with the idea of us together, and I was still loving the first time we met !!  Til everything crashed down when he decided he's outta love been a long time and he needs to move on and I have to go as well ... If you are in a

Are you in the wrong relationship ????

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We all have been dated "the wrong one" at some point of our lives, it's nothing to be ashamed of...He was just someone who isnt right and we all been through this ..But to recognize the wrong guy at the first date or after couple dates and before fallin for him , needs those 5 methods : 1. You just feel he's lying  : Realizing that you're dating the wron g person  can be a confusing romantic because there are nothing obvious , no red flags , no actions show, but something deep down is telling you he's so wrong.... You might be happy and he's proving that things are working... but you feel ain't nothing right, so just fellow your heart. He's probably lying about certain things but he's coming out with unbelievable excuses,he knows how to manipulate you , he knows the right words to say , he's a perfect liar and he knows how to play you . 2. You don't Feel Comfortable : You hate being around him, you don't feel good being with him

Why do men cheat ?

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Truth is no man is loyal, Or it's just so hard for a man to be loyal .Even in a loving and fulfilling relationship shits happen.   However, the sad fact of the matter is that plenty of people will fall victim to being cheated on. And plenty of men are the unfaithful ones.. But to figure out why men do this we need to go inside their minds to figure out why do they cheat at first place.. Sometimes, it's just hard to understand, you thought you gave alot and he won't hurt you but he will , so Here are some basic reasons as to why people cheat on the ones they love. 1. Sometimes it' s you who gave them a reason to cheat : Some times women act insecu re, you make him feel your untrust , you accuse him all the time and you plan the investigator in your relationship... You thought showing him that you 're afra id to lose him and this easy will keep him .. He will cheat just beca use you accuse him... You'r e naggi ng and the idea will blow his mind ! He wil