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How to get an Ex back ?

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You broke up, you been hanging around with a new one but things won't gonna get any better, you think you deserve another chanct want him back, In this case , I'm talking about the women who been dumbed by the man but still in love with them. Sometimes, we argue too much , we care too much , we love too much ,til we suffocate him and instead of dealing with our psycho side , they prefer to leave to breath elsewhere without you being nagging over everything, and jealous over everything that moves  !!! Yes sometimes they love you enough to leave, sometimes you just run out of chances and it's better to separate ways ! There are a hundred million ways to break up but If you're dealing with a very painful break up , and you can't take the idea of him being with a new one,You're just obsessed with getting him back it's not too late too rekindle the live with your ex, but don't get rush and make any mediciore moves , here's 10 methods to be his girlfriend

Are you in healthy relationship ???

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In a long term relationship, couples loses interest.. things become boring and the routine kills love. Sometimes, though, people stay in relationships for all the wrong reasons, even when the most important characteristics of a healthy relationship are missing. So here's characteristics of a healthy relationship : 1.Communication : Is the key of a healthy relationship, stay connected to each other .. you both should talk , it's important to talk more . I n a healthy relationship you need to be able to talk to each other and, more importantly, be able to listen. There should be no fear of losing one another, if you raise a thorny subject,you should be able to talk about anything and everything. If you can’t communicate, then problems will be left unresolve d Try to spend a few tim s together, no TV , no phones , discuss deeper and personal subjects , keep concern of problems, try to solve it together.. Disagreement is a part of every relationship but don't let it d

Is he using you for Sex and money ??

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w omen usually get blinded when it comes to love , while men who's using them for sex and money are the best hiding their true colors..You never know they’re using you until you’ve exhausted all you can give. You will never know it from the start because he will show you all the love that could possibly blind you to see the real him.. His probably been using you for sex and money and you know what’s worse than dating a user? Falling love with a user! Dating a user will wreck you , he will take it all from you using all the ways , using all the words, using advantages of your body and your wallet.. If you're in love , dating a guy  and he's suspicious like he's interested in money and sex more than the relationship .. but you can't tell ...Don’t mistake hot passionate sex for hot passionate love. Sometimes, as much as it seems like love is all you can see, it could just be a haze of lust in your lover’s eyes. Men tend to know exactly what they want from the start,

When you should End up a bad relationship!??

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Sometimes we find ourselves in relationships that make us miserable but we can't let go, I have been inna prison for almost 3 years, I wasn't happy , sex wasn't good, love wasn't good, everything tasted bad and awful , our fights has no meaning, I wasn't bothered at all like when we first dated, jealousy was a play , and I was up every night wondering why I'm laying next to him still ??? Thinking this is not the way I want my life goes !!!!  It was that kind of relationships that I know in my heart it's not right , but it's just take a hold on me ...I was stuck in a dead end relationship that was only drawing me back ...And he was already giving up making efforts to work it out... I wasn't ready to leave yet I was in love with the idea of us together, and I was still loving the first time we met !!  Til everything crashed down when he decided he's outta love been a long time and he needs to move on and I have to go as well ... If you are in a

Are you in the wrong relationship ????

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We all have been dated "the wrong one" at some point of our lives, it's nothing to be ashamed of...He was just someone who isnt right and we all been through this ..But to recognize the wrong guy at the first date or after couple dates and before fallin for him , needs those 5 methods : 1. You just feel he's lying  : Realizing that you're dating the wron g person  can be a confusing romantic because there are nothing obvious , no red flags , no actions show, but something deep down is telling you he's so wrong.... You might be happy and he's proving that things are working... but you feel ain't nothing right, so just fellow your heart. He's probably lying about certain things but he's coming out with unbelievable excuses,he knows how to manipulate you , he knows the right words to say , he's a perfect liar and he knows how to play you . 2. You don't Feel Comfortable : You hate being around him, you don't feel good being with him

Why do men cheat ?

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Truth is no man is loyal, Or it's just so hard for a man to be loyal .Even in a loving and fulfilling relationship shits happen.   However, the sad fact of the matter is that plenty of people will fall victim to being cheated on. And plenty of men are the unfaithful ones.. But to figure out why men do this we need to go inside their minds to figure out why do they cheat at first place.. Sometimes, it's just hard to understand, you thought you gave alot and he won't hurt you but he will , so Here are some basic reasons as to why people cheat on the ones they love. 1. Sometimes it' s you who gave them a reason to cheat : Some times women act insecu re, you make him feel your untrust , you accuse him all the time and you plan the investigator in your relationship... You thought showing him that you 're afra id to lose him and this easy will keep him .. He will cheat just beca use you accuse him... You'r e naggi ng and the idea will blow his mind ! He wil

Is your past relationship still holds you back ?????

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You can't start a new relationship if you still can't overcome your past, if you still holding back there this will ruin your chances of a romantic future life.. If you still obsessed with your Ex boyfriend you need to get rid of all the memories so you can move on .So before getting into a relationship, you need to be sure that you have finally overcome your past. Those a list of warning signs that tell you that  your previous relationship are still holding you back : 1. You still talk about your ex : You talk about him often , about ever ything you both d id together...That means you still on touch with the memories .. this defi nitely mea ns you ain't moved on yet. . E erything still reminds you of him, every place you go , every song you hear..and you still twist the conversations on towards him Talking about an Ex is a way of keeping in touch with the memories. This a sign you haven't really moved on. 2. Online stalk : You still Google him like everyday, stil

How to recover after being on Toxic relationship ??

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Break up is not easy , even the expected ones can cause a deep damage inside of us , break up is bad , but not worse than being inna bad relationship with a toxic person.. You must be hurt , or mad , all this anger that devour your soul and you don't know what to do about it ! All the damage he left and the hate he poured torture you more .. I didn't know what to do after got out  a bad relationship lasted 3 years ...Filled only with pain of being cheated on and alot of wounds that still ain't healed yet ..Bad memories, and i only sit to regret every late night sex and every sacrifice, and all the energy and the time I've wasted for him.. It’s then I realised I wasted the past 3 years on that person and I wasted a year in an on and off relationship, trying to heal and every time he back I Was running back to him , helping him whenever he asked help, then he disappears for weeks and return back like he never did ....and he took advantage of me .. Then it was like a

What type of woman men likes ???

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Women think it's hard for them to understand what men wants and what to do to make them fall in love.. But to know what a type men fall for .. let's get inside a man's mind here's 10 types men would like to settle for : 1. The interesting woman : The mysterious kind , the ones who has so much hiding ..This type what keep men interested, the less  a man knows, the more interesting that person becomes.  It forces men to engage, to inquire, to seek out. 2 . The woman who shows Affection: Everything for men elevates with touch. By nature, they’re drawn to it. They want a woman to reach out and grab their hand; kiss them us randomly; this evokes the feeling of being wanted. 3 . The Confident woman : There's something sexy about confident women, a woman who loves herself enough regardless of her flaws will love her man unconditionally... 4. The ride or die women: This type who stands by her man in every situation he gone through.. Having a strong woman will

Relationships problems and how to solve it ??

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It's rare to find a relationship that doesn't run into a few bumps in the road. Relationships needs work, it's not easy to be committed ,that's why some of them go through problems and to get through it you should recognize ahead of time though what those problems are and how to solve them , it needs two understanding partners who's willing to work it out... Every relationship has its ups and downs, its rare for couples to run into few bumps in the road.. you should recognize your relationship problems to have a much better chance of getting past them. Learn how to manage that and keep your love life going. If your relationship goes ups and downs here's 10 methods to solve it: 1. Your relationship should be a priority : If you want to keep your love life going, make your relationship a priority...Start with doing the  things you used to do when you both start dating like s urprise him... M ake him feel wanted and loved.  Don't forget his birthday or the

How to get revenge on your Ex boyfriend ???

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Your relationship is ended and he dumbed you , you might be crying out for so long and you couldn't get over the damage he has done to you... You must think the best revenge is to move on and do better and leave this toxic relationship behind.. But this won't ease it on you and the best way to get your pride back is revenge . So here's best 11 ways to do : 1. Cut Off all communications : As long as you're still pinning over him, talking to him daily, this will Stoke his ego. but he's well aware you are not over him if you keep all communications between you two, he might be playing the hard to get and make fun of you. So cut off all communications, you don't need him in your life any more, fill your time, don't respond to his calls and text messages, relate him from your social media, when you go silent, it will make him wonder what you're up to . Even if you're single still and you feel lonely, he's not the right one to talk to , don't fe

How to refresh your relationship ???

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Eve ry relationship go thr ough stages, happy or sad .. it' s all face ups and do wns, and sometim es it beco me boring and you just sick of routine . T hat’s why it is so important to make your relationship a priority in your life an d you shou ld make an effort to refresh it because when men get bored they will look for a replacement.. dont  neglect the relationship !! If you think it has lost some of its sparkle, don’t think that there is nothing you can do, take a look at these ten ways so you can refresh your relationship : 1. Fal l in love ag ain : Take him to old place s make him remember why y ou fell in love at first .. Get the old pictu res, talk about the souvenirs you shar ed ,  remember why you are still together now. . Returning to these moments and remembering what have had in the past will show exactly why you should be trying to rekindle those feelings today. Go through your old pictures together this going to remind both 9f you of all the great times you

why you shouldn't go back to the same person who broke you ????

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Don’t go back running to the same person who broke you.. don't let it happen in a moment of weakness where you’re feeling lonely and just need someone to be there for you. This one can't heal your pain especially if he's the reason of it.. you will always be reminded his mistakes and you will never move ahead ... He can't make you feel love again, you will always feel anger and hate!!! Especially if he cheated on you before. Don’t go back to them because you’re heartbroken, or sad, or lonely. Because the person who broke you in the first place isn’t the one who’s going to fix all the broken pieces and put your heart back together. You might think they’re different, you might want to believe them when they say they’ve changed, but in fact they haven’t changed. Maybe in the beginning they can cover up who they are a little bit more. Maybe they can fool you but they didn't really change. If you're confused to go back or not , here's 10 reasons to expla