How to make a long distance relationship works ?

Long distance relationship aren't easy... It takes alot of patience , creativity and trust to work out .
This kind of relationship is complicated, you're both in love but not together, still hard to see each other daily, you feel lonely most of the times, you still can't hold each other hands, or hang out together, sit and talk and feelings their touches....
The smallest things in long distance relationship means so much...
It's tough and there are times the relationship became sucks and hard to handle all those emotions, but to survive those type of relationships you need these 10 methods :

1. Keep in touch daily :

You need to keep on touch with him daily , call to ask how he's doing or what he's doing? It's important to keep communication, but it doesn't mean to talk on phone 24 hours, or chat the whole time, you don't really need to communicate all the time, this gonna be exhausted and suffocating ...
You should build and maintain an emotional connection often , show him that you care but don't exaggerate.

   

2. Send him photos :

Share your daily activities with him and the places you go  through pictures, make him feel like he's with you throughout the day.. Make him feel present in your life ..

    

3. Share conversations :

 Have conversations about everything and nothing, in parallel keep life real as you can ...Don't limit the conversation just about your relationship and how it's sad or hard... Talk about hopes and dreams instead!! Share jokes and silly conversations , make him wait your calls constantly .. be a part of his days and also nights.

  

4. Visit each other often:

No matter who do it the most  but take opportunities... Because face to face communication is much more better.Visit each other on vacation or weekends , have a day off to hang out or go to some restaurant .. Meet each other should be a priority because you really can't work it out only through phone calls and social media communications.


  5. Support :

Support each other over the distance, be there for him in every situation, show him that you care, don't let him deal with any trouble or problem in life alone. In parallel, he must do same ... Don't be the one who give and take nothing instead, your relationship must be a give and take from both sides.

  

6. Trust :

Trust is vital, don't focus on the little things like where did he go last night , or why he didn't call!! Or with whom he joined the club , you can ask but don't accuse, don't throw it all on him...

   

7. Be honest and open :

Talk about your doubts and fears , don't let him question what you might be feeling, talk about it and let him feel comfortable to share his feelings too .. Explore your feelings together, recognize each other's ups and downs will make you both feel comfortable with their low points .

   

8. Do something together at the same time :

Do something together at the same time like cook a meal together on the same day, read a book and you can read it loud to each other, watch the same movie and share your reactions, you can use video calls .. sleep at the same time ..
Choose a hobbies you both wanna do , like learn a new language or whatever you both interest in, play video games online..

  

9. Meet his Friends and his family :

Meet his friends, in real life or online ..Make sure to call his mom often, it's important to make him feel like he has a place in your life .. You should be in touch with some friends he knows or a member of his family, get closer this way ..

  

10. Sex him often :

Sex him often on phone or Skype, let it feel natural and spontaneous, describe what you want him to do to you if you were together . Talk dirty to him , if you don't give importance to sex in your life he will look for it elsewhere, so be sure to satisfy his needs from time to time , enjoy sex through distance.


  If you give it a try it gonna work , relationships through distance is tough but if you both really wanna be together you will find a ways .. 


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